How was your weekend? Well, to be honest with you, mines was pretty fucked up, but hey I made it through and life is filled with ups and downs. No matter how much you put into anything, no matter how good you try to be at what you do, no matter what, "IT DONT MATTER". I really find it amazing on how careless mutherfuckers are now a-days. I swear I am not supposed to being living in this era. I feel like I got misplaced in the time machine. I think I should be in an era when RESPECT was a way of living and CODE was a lifestyle. I would say that I am not the type of person who gives excuses and I don't except them. Over the past few years, I've had some really punk ass situations that I've had to deal with from some real square ass mutherfuckers. It's situations like these, if back in the day, I would have handled these issues with no second guessing, but it just ain't that easy no more. Now a-days when some fucked up shit happens, you gotta just SWALLOW IT or BLOW THAT SHIT OUT. Believe it or not, those are the first 2 things you do, one or the other before you make a major decision that could effect the rest of your life. I've been pretty successful with being able to "Blow that shit out", and get past it, rather than "swallow it" and let it marinate inside of me and poison me. It ain't easy, but it's the only choice that's gonna keep me making the right decision. But it sucks when your just straight up sick and tired of some bullshit and you really wanna SMASH a mutherfucker who did some bitch ass DISRESPECTFUL shit. This is where I just wish you could step to a fool and just say "you fucked up, and I need you to man up and take this ass whippen like a man with out getting 1TIME involved". Now that's CODE, when someone understands that DISRESPECT is unacceptable and the repercussions are mandatory and you have to face it. But nope, times have changed and fools just think they can say "I'm sorry" and all is good. Hell NO, it ain't that easy, cause now a-days if a mutherfucker is doing dumb shit, trust me, your not the first or the last person their gonna apologize to. So, now you gotta be the bigger person and just "BLOW THAT SHIT OUT" cause you know anything you do outside of that will directly land you in jail. So, you give the mutherfucker a pass, and it makes it look like you did nothing. So, you just find yourself waiting for the day to hear something happened to this ass hole so you can feel some joy of redemption. Life ain't easy, so you better make sure you "BLOW THAT SHIT OUT".
Well, on a totally separate note, I would like to say thank you very much to everyone for all your support on the article I wrote on "AdultCON". The response has been incredible and I look forward to the continued response as the article makes it way to everyone's computer across the globe. If you still haven't check it out, you gotta read it, it's below this Blog.
Sunday was my all day outing day. I went to the DUB Car Show at the LA Convention Center to do some networking and get some photos. It was pretty cool, lots of people like always, and it was really cool that I had several people come up to me to compliment me on the article I wrote on AdultCON. They all had horror stories on their first visit and never returned. After walking around for a while I was ready to bounce but I told myself I had to get at least one pic with somebody before I left and guess who came walking by with security? Kim Kardashian and her sisters. She spoke and I did my best to my eyes at shoulder level cause her ass was literally JUMPING out of her skirt! Her sister Khloe jumped out and wanted to take a picture with me before I had to look like a dork and ask, so I was like cool. Khloe is a banger also!
Well, after we left the DUB show, I got a call from Heth over at Wicked asking me to come by the Wicked "Coming Home" release party if I was in the area, and I said for sure! The party was really cool and it was a trip to see all this real army shit like a real Tank, grenade launchers, bombs, and all kind of shit actual military shit they rented as props for the party. It was really a nice set up and a cool ass party and once again I would like to say thank you Heth for the invite!
Well, that's about it for me, and thank you for reading all of this. In closing, I just want you to do your best and make the right choice when dealing with some fucked up shit, just remember to "BLOW THAT SHIT OUT".
Much respect,
Goldie DeWitt
9 comments:
Wow! Looks like you are getting chummy with the whole Dash Family .. very cool .. next time .. I need to be there so I can meet Brody! ;o)
I agree with you about the "Blow that Shit Out" cause if you let things boil up inside you .. they will start to fester like a sore ... that ugly feeling inside you only gets worse if you can't let it go...
It's better to take the high road always try to be the bigger person .. eventhough sometimes it can be extremely frustrating .. you just have to realize that the world and the people in it are full of imperfections ...
It's funny that you wrote about this at this time, because I happen to have had a SHITTY day and this blog has reminded me to not lose sight of myself and what I stand for and the hard work that I put into trying to be good at anything I do ... So THANK YOU!
I needed to be reminded to, as you put it, "Blow that Shit Out" Your words were just what the doctor ordered. Thanks again! :o)
I agree with Diddy, you're gettin' a bit friendly with them bruah and I'm thinking I may have to stick to your side like glue. We're tight right ??....ha
Anyway, on to your "Blow that shit out" part of the blog......You're right, we live in a time where there is no respect anymore and it's been bothering me for awhile. I remember the days if you disrespected me in any way, my foot was deep up in that ass and the next time you saw me, it was a whole different story. What you're talking about now is what I've been feeling for the last few months, no matter how much respect you give someone, for whatever reason, it's not returned so it makes me want to go back to that "old" D and handle thing in a different way. But then I think, "you have way too much to lose now and are these people even worth it??" and then I realize they aren't. Seems like things wont get any better homie so I sit back, breath and chill. Sad but it's the only thing we can really do now....But I TRULY wish some of these people could see us back in our "hay" day and realize how lucky they are that we've grown up....Aye Slim, tell them about my "nigga beater" I had back in those days !!
Stay up brotha
DOC
Man I wish I would have read this shit a couple of weeks ago. It would have helped me out....instead I spent a couple days at good old WVDC (West Valley Detention Center).
You know Goldie,I like where you are coming from....but it just seems like too many people use the word "sorry" a little too much!! There is always gonna be that time where it just wont work!!
Yes... spoken from a true master... You already know how I get when some one rubs me wrong.... That drunk chick at the lounge that night... member??? okay what night, right??? anyways some times i just wonder how stupid people actually get thru the day??? i seriously look at them in wonder and try to understand their purpose in life. then it dawns on me.... they are cheap entertainment... and as for the word "sorry" the minute it comes out of someones mouth you can tell if it is heartfelt or if its bullshit... hope you dont mind but i'm gonna use that term BLOW THAT SHIT OUT.... MUCH LOVE!!! **kaRRie**
whoooooosssaaaaaa!
i feel ya on this man,
i've learned to calm down since minivan. every now and again you get those people or situations where you jus wanna slap a ma'fukka in mid sentence for some dumb shit. your right though some one has to be the bigger man, and its a damn shame that there are so called men out there who really believe they're living by the creed of a man, but in reality they have no clue
still down
van
Kharma is a muthafucka! Just sit back and watch as the universe handles everything much better than you would have ever planned. Thank all of those who do you wrong because tha is how you are made stronger. Im goin through some shit that coulda had me locked up and still has my job in question and I can honestly say those who did me wrong blessed me. They made this warrior stronger , and I have felt myself launch into a new level of life because of this trial. GOD is too good to let the stupid people of the world win the battles life brings. It seems as though things have gone in their favor however in the end the war will be won by those who "Blow that shit out"
Much love from your sista :-)
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Keep tellin' you, I want to be like you when I grow up.....
Glad you had a good time Goldie! Thanks for coming to the party, it was a pleasure having you and all your 1 down peeps there. :)
Much love,
Heth
An outstanding share! I've just forwarded this onto a colleague who had been doing a little research on this. And he actually bought me lunch due to the fact that I discovered it for him... lol. So let me reword this.... Thank YOU for the meal!! But yeah, thanx for spending some time to talk about this issue here on your internet site.
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